I'm not mean i'm just blunt if i'm not interested its because i'm looking for something else i will in fact tell you politely that i'm not and will be sweet bout it but if you come at me because i said no then your a loser and you need to get it together with 2 women but I suppose that is asking too much. Being new to this area i'm looking for some fun and maybe something serious if I find the right woman basically i'm a hard man to fight but i'm an easy man to please and i always put others needs ahead of my own especially making sure my woman is pleased and happy and she can talk to me about everything and treat me sincerely. The swingers club enjoy being around fun down-to-earth people.